當小彭進入班課時，我已覺察到他的異樣，在我們的談話中，小彭的頭一直抬不起來，一直往下鑽，為了看到他的眼神，我也跟著他鑽。
但是，當我問到他父母親的情況時，他便忍不住流下眼淚來，原來他的母親在去年一次交通意外中離開了他們，到現在他還是很想念媽媽，就在這一刻，我很想幫小彭處理他跟媽媽的未了情，因此，我便邀請他停下來，並告訴他說：『如果我是他的媽媽，你想跟我說甚麼？』，小彭看著我說：『我想告訴媽媽，我很愛你！』。當時我便辦演了他媽媽，接納了他的心意，然後便跟小彭說：『媽媽知道了，我也很愛你，不用擔心！』。並輕輕拍了他肩旁一下。
這次對話，雖然很簡單，卻帶給這個孩子一點點的安慰，而且更讓我認知到這群孩子內心的需要。
When Xiao Peng entered into class lesson, I could felt the difference. Xiao Peng's head had not lift up during our conversation. He kept on drilling down. In order to looked into his eyes, I had to drill down with him.
However, when I asked about his parents, he could not help anymore and shed his tears. His mother left them last year in a traffic accident. He still missed her mother very much. I wanted to help Xiao Peng to deal with his unfinished business with her mother. Therefore, I told him to take a break, and said: "If I were your mother, what would you tell me?". Xiao Peng looked at me and said: "I want to tell my mother that I love her very much! ". I then acted as her mother at that moment and told him: "Mom knows that you love you. Don't worry! ". And then pat his shoulder lightly.
Although the conversation was very short, but did bring some comfort to the child. It also made me realized that the emotional needs of these children.
但是，當我問到他父母親的情況時，他便忍不住流下眼淚來，原來他的母親在去年一次交通意外中離開了他們，到現在他還是很想念媽媽，就在這一刻，我很想幫小彭處理他跟媽媽的未了情，因此，我便邀請他停下來，並告訴他說：『如果我是他的媽媽，你想跟我說甚麼？』，小彭看著我說：『我想告訴媽媽，我很愛你！』。當時我便辦演了他媽媽，接納了他的心意，然後便跟小彭說：『媽媽知道了，我也很愛你，不用擔心！』。並輕輕拍了他肩旁一下。
這次對話，雖然很簡單，卻帶給這個孩子一點點的安慰，而且更讓我認知到這群孩子內心的需要。
When Xiao Peng entered into class lesson, I could felt the difference. Xiao Peng's head had not lift up during our conversation. He kept on drilling down. In order to looked into his eyes, I had to drill down with him.
However, when I asked about his parents, he could not help anymore and shed his tears. His mother left them last year in a traffic accident. He still missed her mother very much. I wanted to help Xiao Peng to deal with his unfinished business with her mother. Therefore, I told him to take a break, and said: "If I were your mother, what would you tell me?". Xiao Peng looked at me and said: "I want to tell my mother that I love her very much! ". I then acted as her mother at that moment and told him: "Mom knows that you love you. Don't worry! ". And then pat his shoulder lightly.
Although the conversation was very short, but did bring some comfort to the child. It also made me realized that the emotional needs of these children.
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